
Book #167 of 2024:
The Third Gilmore Girl by Kelly Bishop
I knew vaguely that actress Kelly Bishop — most iconic to my generation as the matriarch Emily on the show Gilmore Girls — had been one of the original cast members of the Broadway musical A Chorus Line when she was younger. What I hadn’t realized until reading this memoir is that the play itself was based on the actual experiences of Bishop and the rest of the company as dancers struggling to break into acting, and that some of her character Sheila’s poignant lines about her unhappy home life were taken directly from what she had shared during the initial workshops that produced the script.
This title starts there, with the production that won the author a Tony Award and really launched her career, before backtracking to cover her childhood and early dance roles and then progressing to the success on television that followed. It’s a fascinating story that captures the era and the showbusiness industry well, and while Gilmore Girls is far from the only topic, the chapters devoted to that program make plain just how much the writer loved it and everyone who worked there with her. She demonstrates sharp insight into her own character — whose relationship with Lauren Graham’s Lorelai she says was similar to that between her grandmother and mother — and the greater series at large, which she watched religiously even in those weeks when she didn’t appear. (She’s Team Logan, of course, as indeed all discerning fans should be.)
Amid the fond memories, she also discusses the pain of losing her longtime scene partner Edward Herrmann to cancer, along with her own husband and mother. Here and elsewhere in the text, she is frank and unapologetic about her emotions and her perspectives, addressing her sex life, her failed first marriage, health scares, an abortion, and her lifelong commitment to avoid having children all in the same matter-of-fact tone with which she reflects on old auditions or anything else. It’s a refreshing honesty from someone who at 80 has lived a long and satisfying life, and although I may have rolled my eyes at the occasional intrusion of woo-woo mysticism about the universe opening up a path for her and messages from beyond the grave, it’s hard to argue that she hasn’t earned the right to her little eccentricities.
[Content warning for drug abuse and domestic abuse.]
★★★★☆
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