
Book #194 of 2018:
Educated: A Memoir by Tara Westover
This memoir is a difficult read, recounting author Tara Westover’s fundamentalist survivalist childhood in rural Idaho and her decision as a teenager to finally pursue an education away from home, which leads her to realize just how sheltered and unhealthy her early life has been. She has no birth certificate and has been taught never to use soap or visit a doctor. It’s not until college that she learns about things like the Holocaust and the Civil Rights movement that have no place in her original view of the world.
Her father is a paranoid crackpot and her brother a cruel brute, but their isolated patriarchal community makes it hard for women like Westover to stand up for themselves. Even after the author earns her PhD, she is beset by their disapproval and constant gaslighting, forced to grapple with her sense of loyalty to a family that honestly doesn’t deserve it.
Westover is clearly brilliant, but she doesn’t hide the ugly side of her past, panic attacks, physical assaults, grad school depression, and all. She questions her own memories, seeking confirmation from journals and witnesses that she isn’t the crazy person her relatives claim when she goes against them. It’s scary to spend even the length of this book with such people, and a true sign of the author’s resilience that she’s gotten this far away.
[Content warning for all of the above issues, as well as graphic violence both from domestic abuse and the aftermath of accidents, plus multiple uses of the n-word when discussing the family’s racism.]
★★★★☆








