
Book #24 of 2024:
Strong Female Character by Fern Brady
I’m not familiar with author Fern Brady’s comedy work, but she’s written a heartfelt and eye-opening memoir about her experiences as a woman on the autism spectrum: how getting that diagnosis as an adult in her thirties both helped her navigate her life going forward and explained elements from her younger years that had never made sense before. While hers is very much a personal narrative, including anecdotes about her working-class Scottish Catholic upbringing, troubles at university, and temporary career as an exotic dancer, she accompanies her account of how her condition has affected these events with facts she’s since learned about neurodivergence in general, such as how it’s under-recognized in women and girls, where it manifests differently than classical male-skewed textbook descriptions.
For Brady, being autistic has meant feeling overstimulated by loud environments and other sensory issues, finding comfort in routines and corresponding panic at unexpected interruptions, having difficulty interpreting social cues, white lies, and unspoken implications, and occasionally erupting into violence — at herself, at other people, and at her physical surroundings — when put under too much stress. Even today, she regularly has trouble asking for help or understanding things that seem to come intuitively to others. Throughout her childhood and early adulthood, these reactions were chalked up to her being an odd kid (true!) or just obstinate (false!), with the expectation that eventually, the writer would settle down and conform to the world around her. Instead, she has remained steadfastly herself, coming through some significant traumas to finally share her story with us here. It’s well worth a listen, whether you can directly relate to the mental and behavioral patterns she describes or not.
[Content warning for racism, sexism, homophobia, drug and alcohol abuse, self-harm, domestic abuse, pedophilia, and rape.]
★★★★☆
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